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Today is a Good Day to Clean Fido’s Bowl

February 3, 2021 By Kelly Crompton Leave a Comment

Keep Those Dishes CleanMost of us have been guilty of it from time to time: we let that dog bowl get reused for days, or even weeks, without washing it. After all, Fido licks it clean after every meal. It doesn’t look dirty. (Or maybe it does? ) And the water dish, well, it’s just water. We refill it daily, often several times a day. Doesn’t that by default keep it clean?

Simple answer — No.

When I was boarding dogs and continually had several dogs in and out of my home, I was pretty vigilant about keeping those dishes clean every day. Plus, some clients would bring their own dishes and I always wanted to return them in great condition.

But when I moved to an apartment recently and stopped boarding dogs, I noticed I became lax at regularly keeping my Jackson’s dishes clean. It’s just him here, and often his cousin Lillie, but that’s it. I quickly fell out of my routine of wiping down dishes.

One day I noticed his bowl had little bits of pumpkin left in it. (I sometimes mix his food with a bit of canned pumpkin – NOT pumpkin pie filling.) And I thought, “Oh my God, when was the last time I actually cleaned his dish?!”

I was embarrassed. Here I am, a dog walker and sitter. I used to board dogs. And I write about them. How could I have let my own dog’s dish get so dirty?

It’s an easy thing to forget, but luckily, it’s also easy to get back into — or begin — the habit of cleaning out Fido’s dish regularly.

Avoid Harmful Bacteria

But why is this important?

In this great article by Dr. Sara, DVM, she explains that there are multitudes of bacteria that can grow quickly on your dog’s dish. And not the good, healthy kind of bacteria, but the bad, make-our-dogs-and-us-sick kind.

Just a couple of examples she mentions include: Staphylococcus aureus, Streptococcus, and Salmonella. In other words, staph infections, strep (sore throats to pneumonia), and salmonella, which affects the intestinal tract.

As we all know, dogs get into gross things all the time. They do tend to have hearty digestive systems in order to handle all the wonderful “treats” they enjoy discovering, so you might wonder what’s the problem with a dish that hasn’t been cleaned in awhile. Dr. Sara understands this question.

While it might sound like a good argument, the problem is these bacteria can all cause disease. This is a particular problem in young puppies, elderly dogs and dogs with weak immune systems.

I don’t have to tell you that cleaning your dog’s bowl is much cheaper than a trip to the vet.

Another thing to consider is that bacteria can spread to other members in your household. Plus, visitors might not appreciate the look or the smell of Fido’s dish.

Let's Wash Fido's Bowl

So how often should we wash those bowls?

Daily.

If your dog eats dry food exclusively, cleaning out the dish each night is enough. The same is true with her water dish. If she eats wet food, Dr. Sara recommends cleaning and sanitizing the dish after every meal.

She also recommends that if you keep the dishes on a mat of some type, that mat also should be cleaned daily. I’ll admit, this has never been my habit. I would throw it in the wash every week or so, or after a visit from a boarder, but now I plan to clean (or at least wipe down) Jackson’s mat more often. Maybe even daily as I should!

How to Wash Fido’s Dishes

All you need to properly clean your dog’s dish is what you would use for your own. A simple wash with dish detergent and hot water will do the trick. Consider dedicating a separate sponge or dish cloth for your dog’s dishes than the one you use for your own.

I often throw Jackson’s dishes in the dishwasher on the top shelf. But make sure to note what your dish is made of and check whether it’s dishwasher safe.

It’s best if you use stainless steel or ceramic dishes. They are easier to clean, plus they won’t breed bacteria quite as readily as a more porous substance like plastic. This does NOT mean you can wash them less often, just that these dishes will be easier to maintain.

I was a little surprised to learn that even running his dish through the dishwasher wasn’t enough to actually sterilize it. Yes, his dish was clean, but Dr. Sara recommends full sterilization once per week, and teaches us how.

After washing your dog’s bowl to remove any caked-on food and other grime, follow these steps:

  • Add ½ cup regular bleach to a gallon of water.
  • Let the dog bowl sit for 10 minutes.
  • Remove and rinse thoroughly with fresh water.
  • Leave it to air dry.

This simple treatment will kill parvo, a leading killer of puppies under six months old (older dogs are not immune either).

Note: chlorine-based disinfectants are unsuitable for stainless steel dog bowls and may cause them to rust.

Have Extra Dishes On Hand

Having a rotation of dishes will help this process. When I pick up Jackson’s bowls to wash and/or sterilize, I have a supply of clean ones to put down in turn.

While there are lots of super cute dishes to choose from, having a backup supply or two can actually be pretty inexpensive. Maybe have one set of your favorite dishes, and another for sanitizing day. I compare it to the sweats I wear on laundry day. (Although as a pet sitter, it’s not often I wear anything other than jeans anyway)

Are any of you brave enough to share your before and after pictures of those dog dishes in our Facebook group? No judgment or shame. Now that we all know what we should be doing, we can celebrate our new habit of keeping Fido’s dishes as clean as we — hopefully — keep our own.

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A Good Case of the Zooms: Video Chats with Pets

January 27, 2021 By Kelly Crompton Leave a Comment

Pets Curing Isolation One Video Call at a Time

I am so excited to talk about an organization a friend of mine in the Atlanta area turned me onto this week!

It’s called Pets Together, a program run through the Animal Farm Foundation, which offers several programs in service of both dogs and people. I am certain I will be revisiting their site many times to bring you information about how we can be great advocates for our dogs, combat breed discrimination, how dogs help those incarcerated, the benefits of service dogs, and more.

But for today my focus is on Pets Together. Over the years it’s become more popular to bring animals — usually dogs, though not exclusively — to nursing homes, children’s hospitals, and other similar places where people are in need of comfort and companionship.

Pet visits reduce anxiety, stir up happy memories, lower heart rate, reduce depression, and add a feeling of companionship, which is vital, particularly for people in isolation. Plus, upcoming animal visits give people something to look forward to.

Unfortunately, the pandemic has all but put a stop to many of these programs. At Pets Together, they got creative and embraced technology to give people and animals a way to still visit safely. They use video call services like Zoom and Skype.

From the sample pictures and videos I watched, volunteers have their dogs, cats, cows, goats — really any variety of pet — on video with them. Not always do animals actually look into the camera, but that’s part of the charm. We enjoy watching the little surprises. It makes us chuckle, and isn’t that what we’re all looking for?

In one of the video clips, a young man would play the harmonica, and his dog would “sing along” to it. In another, a young woman showed us one of her dog’s tricks.

Because these get-togethers aren’t in person, pets don’t need to be trained therapy animals. There’s no liability to be concerned with. It truly is solely about bringing a bit of joy to people who are otherwise pretty isolated at the moment. Plus, virtual visits open the door to a larger variety of animals as well as make volunteer opportunities more accessible for people who want to participate with their own pets.

Additionally, these visits are free. Pets Together is a nonprofit program, but of course they accept donations so they can keep this, and other wonderful programs on their larger site — Animal Rescue Foundation — running.

If you are interested in more information, want to volunteer with your own pet, or donate, please visit the Pets Together volunteer page and fill out an application.

In the meantime, tell me how animals have improved your own life, or what you’ve witnessed for others you care about. Drop a comment, come visit our community on Facebook, or even better — do both — and we love pictures!

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Getting Back Up

January 20, 2021 By Kelly Crompton Leave a Comment

When you miss a goal or make some sort of mistake, get knocked down, etc, how long does it take you to get back up? Do you punish yourself, or do you learn the lesson and move on?

This was the topic of a recent Zoom call I participated in with fellow business owners. So today I’ll discuss punishment, and while this post is geared mainly toward the humans, I’ll incorporate some “dog stuff” in the second part.

At the start of the conversation I felt myself get my back up just a little. I thought our coach was saying we shouldn’t even allow ourselves to feel the emotions of disappointment. I thought she was suggesting we ignore them or push them down and just move on.

Why did this bother me?

Because in the past, I read a lot of books and listened to a lot of “successful” people suggest just that. I also learned some not very helpful lessons in my younger years that my emotions weren’t valid, and as a result I began to hide them.

Guess what. That is not healthy. Getting Back Up

Thank God for the therapist I finally found who talked to me about allowing my emotions — I call it “feeling the feels” (often with great alliteration of another F-word in there). He taught me the difference between having emotions, feeling disappointed, and feeling shame.

Shame is generally not healthy. I’m not a mental health professional, so I’m not going to suggest there is never a place for shame.

But where does that leave us when we mess up? Do we wallow in that mistake and give up? Do we eventually try again? How long does it take you to say, “So what, now what?” (That’s the phrase our coach used, and I’m now stealing it as my own.)

She suggested that fast is better than slow. I agree.

Mostly.

But I also think that fast and slow mean different things to different people. For me, slow used to mean days, weeks, or even months before I could get back up and try again — if I bothered to try again at all. Nowadays it can be hours, but still sometimes days. Very occasionally it’s mere minutes.

Now WhatI think getting back up is the MOST important part, more than the speed of it. If you’re not used to considering how long it takes you to move on, or if you’re someone whose default is to just give up, then let’s go ahead and start with slow. It’s still faster than not at all.

But as you practice forgiving yourself and learning the lesson without the shame, then you’ll start getting there faster.

Ultimately that’s the goal — So what, now what? And move on. But baby steps are just fine.

And another thing: phone a friend

Our coach also talked about not self-isolating in these moments. Ugh, that’s a tough one. Add a pandemic to it, and holy sh*t!

But she’s right. Find a person — a friend, mentor, a group, whatever fits for you — you can call or visit and share your moment of failure (real or perceived) and the feelings surrounding it. Someone (or group) who will just listen, and that’s it.

Do I follow this practice well? Not often enough, even though I know it’s very good advice. And not everybody is the right kind of person to share your “failures” with. Even the most well-intentioned friends and family can handle these situations in not the best way.

SupportMy coach said the best thing someone can do for another person sharing these feelings of disappointment is to just listen and then say, “Yeah, that really sucks.”

That’s it. Don’t try to fix it. Don’t add reasons for punishment. Nothing. Agree that it sucks. The consequence of whatever you missed your mark on, sucks. It doesn’t feel good.

But now what? Where are you going from this point? That’s the type of person or group I want you to seek out, and I suggest you try to be as well.

The cycle of overwhelm, failure, and wallowing

When I first failed at filling out my dog treat registration application, I let myself wallow for too long. I felt like an absolute idiot, a stupid failure. (Super great self-talk there, right?)

I set it aside, and because it was a very busy time for me between my divorce, moving, my other business’ busy time of year, and the holidays fast approaching, I easily used those as excuses to not get focused on it again.

And some of that is valid. It’s one of the things I deal with on a daily basis — I can get overwhelmed easily.

If I don’t remind and allow myself to take a beat and then prioritize, then everything feels like it’s the same level of importance. Everything feels like it’s coming at me at once, and it feels like a tornado swirling all around me, sucking me in, and I begin to think I have no control. Then I shut down.

This doesn’t happen as often anymore, but it definitely still happens. If I don’t recognize the feeling of overwhelm as it’s creeping up, take a breath and use my strategies, the overwhelm takes over, and it’s all over. At least for the moment.

And that’s what I did with the treats. I didn’t feel confident that I would get it right if I tried again, and I would have to give up on my dream. I would feel like an utter failure, and I would be letting down the people around me who are cheering me on.

Silly, right? Because if I didn’t try again, then THAT WAS giving up on my dream. Anxiety and fear play terrible tricks on our minds.

With some nudging from my business partner/sister, I got refocused and tried again. This time, I reached out and asked questions. Hopefully I got it right this round. But one thing I know is that if I made mistakes again, I can fix them and try again. And this time around, I will try again right away. And I am already closer to my goals.

Another person on our Zoom call said something I have heard many times before, but this time it really stuck. She said, “If you’re not failing, you’re not trying.”

What I heard is that not only is it okay to fail, but it’s expected from time to time.

In that moment, she gave me permission to not only fail, but to forgive myself, learn the lesson, and get back up to try again.

What about the dogs?

So let’s talk about life with our dogs.

Have you been trying something with your dog, maybe training — something like walking well on leash, but just not succeeding? Do you find that you often just give up and decide, “My dog is just going to be a puller when we walk?”

Or maybe you’ve even given up walking her altogether.

And then you feel guilty, because you know darn well she needs those walks.

But when you or another family member or friend do walk her again, she’s practically impossible. The poor girl has pent-up energy and just doesn’t understand what’s expected. Then you feel like a failure — again. You know you should be working on it, but past experience has led you to believe (falsely) that you stink and just can’t do it.

What a terrible, never-ending circle of falling short and then punishing yourself.

Stop beating yourself up. It doesn’t do you or your dog any good. Understand that training does not come easily to every person, nor to every dog, but it IS possible with every human and every dog.

Dog behaving on leashJust like learning anything else new, there is always more than one way and more than one fit. It might take a bit more time up front for you to find a new technique (or a few techniques) that will work for both you and your dog, but you absolutely CAN do it.

Also, not every trainer is the right fit. Just like not every doctor, coach, therapist, or even restaurant is the right fit. Find one that works for you and fits your style.

Please recognize, though, that you do need to do the work in between the weekly lessons with the trainer. I see too many people not follow through on their end, and then believe it’s the trainer’s fault or the dog’s fault.

Make an honest assessment of what’s going on there. But again, no shame, just learn the lesson, adjust course, and move on.

Get Back UpSo where are you in this progression? Have you already mastered the skill of understanding you don’t need to punish yourself to learn a lesson and just move on? Are you stuck tormenting yourself to the point of almost giving up? Or are you somewhere in between and working on it?

What can I do to help you? Do you need tips or strategies on how to deal with that self talk? Or tips concerning your dog? Please let me know. Or come join and share it in our community on Facebook where we can all help one another!

 

 

 

 

 

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Should I Bring My Dog to the Dog Park?

January 13, 2021 By Kelly Crompton Leave a Comment

Dog Parks.

It seems you either love ’em or hate ’em.

This is a hotly debated topic among the pet sitter groups I belong to. Much like a playground for young children, dog parks are a playground of sorts for dogs. Most parks are fenced in, so there’s no worry about your dog running off into the woods or traffic.

Some people believe they’re a great way to allow dogs to play and socialize with other canines. Others believe there are just too many risks involved — dog fights, disease, learning bad behaviors from other dogs (sort of like your child coming home with new, exciting language from the playground).

There are valid arguments on either side. Myself, I am pro-park. I love the park, and the dogs I have brought love the park.

However, not all dogs should visit the park. And not all caregivers are equipped to handle a park.

So how do you know whether you should bring Rex into this sort of environment?

Is Your Dog Medically Ready for the Park?

First, is he up to date on all of his vaccinations, including Bordatella (aka Kennel Cough)? If not, then NO. This is not a safe environment for your dog or for the other dogs.

Next, is your dog spayed or neutered? NEVER bring a female dog in heat to the park. You are asking for trouble if you do.

It’s not fair to her when the other dogs get excited and want to mount her, and it’s not safe because she’ll want to fend them off. And it’s likely that several male dogs will try to get to your girl, resulting in a scuffle (at best) or an all-out brawl. This is a recipe for disaster. Just don’t do it.

There are owners who seem to feel their unneutured male is fine to bring to the park. Personally, I feel most unneutered (and unspayed) dogs should generally not enter a park. However, vets have been recommending leaving dogs unaltered for longer than what used to be the norm — particularly larger breeds. So as long as the owner is conscientious and pays close attention to their dog (as all owners ought to be doing anyway), my view has softened a bit.

This topic — when and whether to alter your dog — is a blog for another day, but let me leave it by reiterating, to NEVER bring a female in heat to the park. NEVER.

Now that we got the medical stuff out of the way, let’s discuss what else needs to be considered.

Are You Physically and Mentally Prepared?

How about you, the human? Are you physically able to keep up with your dog in the park?

If you need to get her attention quickly, leash her and leave, can you? Do you know what to do if a fight breaks out? Can you physically do what needs to be done? If not, then avoid the park. This is not your fenced-in backyard where you can be less mindful.

Also, dogs run around a LOT at the park, they play chase in packs, and I have seen many people get barreled into, and even knocked over — myself included. If you aren’t physically able to handle what might happen, this isn’t the place for you to bring Rex.

If you are particularly timid and nervous, you probably want to think twice about the dog park. Your dog will feed off of that energy. If you’re nervous, she’ll be nervous and more likely to growl at approaching dogs who only want to check her out and maybe play. This can lead to aggression and a fight.

HOWEVER, this doesn’t mean you can never go to a park. I had a client who knew she was nervous but wanted to learn how to feel more confident and safe so her dog would feel confident and safe with other canines. She was open to learning. She took suggestions and small steps, and now both she and her dog are able to enjoy playtime with other dogs. It’s been wonderful to watch!

What kind of control do you have with your dog? If your answer is a hearty laugh, and a “Ha! She’s the one who runs things around here,” then you both aren’t ready for the park — yet.

Let’s work on some basic commands first: Sit, Stay, Down, Come, Off, Heel, and No. Once you both have those under your belt, then you might be ready for the park.

Full disclosure — while my dog and my fur niece do know these seven commands, they aren’t perfect with them 100 percent of the time. But the park, with all of its distractions, is a good place to continue practicing those commands. A distraction-free home is easy; how about the playground?

Is your dog possessive? Food Aggressive? Toy aggressive? If so, she should not go to the park. But again, this might not be a forever decision.

A good trainer can help most dogs with these behaviors. YOU have to also be trained, though. It’s incredibly frustrating how many pet parents think that only the dog needs training. You need it as well. Listen to the trainer, follow through, and be consistent. Especially when it comes to dealing with aggressive behaviors. Your dog needs to understand exactly what is expected at all times.

Once you have been through training – and this will take longer than a week or two because you’re in it for the long haul – you MIGHT be ready for the park. Start small, and ask your trainer’s advice for how to do this properly, if at all.

Park Etiquette

Once you know that your dog is medically ready and knows her basic commands, etc., what do you need to know about park etiquette?

There are usually rules posted on the fence — read them. If the park has a website, check it out before your first visit.

Maybe even visit once without your dog, just to get the lay of the land and observe. Even ask other dog owners questions. Most are more than happy to chat about their experience, help educate others about park etiquette, and of course just have the opportunity to talk about their dog.

A good park not only has signs posted at the gate, but also has a double fence, or containment, system. This means that there’s a gate to enter a small area where you take your dog’s leash off, and then another gate to enter the actual park.

This serves two major purposes. First, it keeps all the dogs contained so they can’t run out of the park. They would have to slip by two open gates rather than just the one. Second, it gives the new arrivals a moment to prepare and even sniff around a bit before heading into the large area of what can feel chaotic at first.

For a lot of dogs, a good walk before entering the park can be helpful. It rids them of extra tension and energy so they are more mentally relaxed when coming out to play with their friends.

Bring water and a dish. It’s a good idea to have your own for your dog, but let’s face it, they end up sharing dishes … which is another reason up-to-date vaccinations are so important. Some parks actually have hoses or fountains to fill your dish, but not all.

Do NOT bring treats or other food into the park. Not all owners are good about not bringing their food aggressive dogs, and even well-behaved dogs can get overstimulated and reactive when there’s competition for something to eat. Plus you’ll end up with dogs like my niece, Lillie, who will not stop following you if you have tasty snacks hidden on your person.

Leave the treats in the car and offer them after your visit.

Pick up after your dog. Pick up PoopFirst, it’s just good manners. It’s gross to step in poop, and we’ve all done it. Help keep the place clean. Also, dog poop is a breeding ground for disease. Help to keep all the dogs healthy by picking up his waste.

Some parks have poop bags available, but it’s always a good idea to bring your own. So far, I haven’t been to a park that doesn’t at least have trash bins to dispose of your poop bags, but if they don’t, then you’ll have to carry that bag back with you and dispose of it in your own trash or dumpster.

As a dog walker, I hated carrying bags of poop on my walks, and found this great product, called a Doo-Doo Tube. It’s one of the best tools of the trade and saved my nose many times!

Keep a Close Eye on Your Dog at All Times!

And finally, a park is not a “just let your dog run free while you take a nap” kind of place.

As a responsible pet owner, you need to keep a close eye on your dog. Be aware of canine body language. Understand the difference between play wrestling and what is too rough, play growling and warning growls. Understand that although mounting other dogs is normal, it is also rude behavior, so don’t allow it.

My own dog is older and usually pretty chill, but occasionally he finds a dog he really “likes” and wants to mount. I know the look he gets and I put a stop to it before it happens. Does he sometimes try before I get to him? Yup. But I never just allow it. I take him off, and move him away.

If he becomes a pest and just won’t stop trying to go for it, we leave. That’s my responsibility as a pet owner. My usually well-behaved dog sometimes just doesn’t listen, so we leave and try again another day. We are not going to ruin the fun for the other dogs and humans who are following the rules and minding their manners.

Some owners don’t keep a close eye on their dogs. If I feel at all like my dog might be in danger because of a dog parent who isn’t watching their dog, the presence of an aggressive dog, or one who just won’t leave my boy alone (because he’s usually the one other dogs mount, not the other way around), then I leave.

I’ve been lucky, I suppose. My overall experience has been very good with dog parks. Have I seen fights break out? Of course. Are there some parks I avoid if I know a particularly aggressive dog or irresponsible pet parents are there? You bet.

But I also have the confidence to stop a fight before it begins if I notice one brewing, even if it’s not my own dogs. I have no problem telling other dogs “No” or pulling them off of my dog. I’m not rude. I don’t chastise the owner, and so far, no owner has gotten mad at me. (At least they haven’t said anything to me if they were.)

I believe that in a park, we all need to keep an eye out first on our own dogs, and then on each other’s as well, and I appreciate it when other owners do the same with the dogs in my care.

Dog parks can be a great place for socialization between dogs and between dogs and humans. It’s usually fun, and can be quite safe IF you are vigilant.

What has been your experience with dog parks? Do you have additional questions or concerns I can answer about them for you?

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What’s Your Word?

December 30, 2020 By Kelly Crompton Leave a Comment

During a recent Group coaching call, Kelly (my coach — and you know with that name she must be awesome!) asked us whether we choose a word for the upcoming year.

This is a practice in which you pick a word to focus on during the next 12 months; it can be used in place of New Year’s resolutions or to support them. Some people call it a power word.

I’ve never really done this before. Perhaps in a flighty sort of way, but never with real intention. But I love this idea and thought about it for awhile. The group had a great discussion about a couple of different words and what they mean to us, and Kelly described a vision meditation she experienced with one of her own coaches awhile back.

During this discussion I blurted out, “Community!”

It was like, Duh! Every time my sister talked with me about what I want with my physical barkery, and what I want to create more of around me, that’s what it always comes back to. Community. How did I not realize that was my word right off the bat? I was thinking too hard. I was making it complicated for myself — an anxious person’s automatic go-to. Overthink. Stress that it’s not perfect.

But it was actually quite simple. I want to build community.

This is what I promised all of you when I put myself out there a couple of months ago. I plan to share tips, experiences, stories, and more about dogs and their absolute wonderfulness, as well as mental health stories and tips — living with it, getting through tough times — and of course, how dogs help us deal with a multitude of mental and physical health challenges.

I am still learning how to do all of this — how to be consistent and engaging on social media and with my blog and emails — but this year, my focus will be on my commitment to this community and building it into something you all will enjoy and learn from.

Dogs meeting on leashSo how does this tie in with dogs? Well, community! I meet people because of dogs and through dogs. It’s easy for me to start talking to people when they have a pooch with them. Or when I have one. Or most especially, when we both do (assuming both canines are friendly with one another – always check and be safe!)

Dogs are the best ice breakers. I go to trails and to parks where dogs are welcome, and I get to talk with people. Even during this pandemic, we can safely socialize because we are outside and spaced well more than six feet apart. I bring my mask in case I can’t avoid physical closeness.

This reminds me of a recent trip. A little girl, maybe three years old, came in with her parents. She loves the dogs that are sort of chillin’ out on their own, away from the pack. My Jackson is the BEST when it comes to little kids. He lets anyone pet him, and he is a dog who allows hugs and can be trusted if a child forgets their manners and gets in his face. She had her mask on, and wanted to come to him. Of COURSE I allowed it. I put mine on, and totally enjoyed the moment of absolute wonder between a child and a dog.

It never gets old for me. And I so appreciated those parents who were teaching their daughter at such a young age the proper way to be around and approach other dogs. About asking and waiting to be sure it’s all right. To not fear dogs, but to be respectful of them and the different temperaments. I eat those moments up.

But I digress.

For me, those parks and those walks have been a true life saver during this year. Yes, I like my alone time, but I NEED community. I need to be with others at least occasionally. This year, I’ve had to find very intentional and safe ways to be around others. For awhile it was just video calls with other humans, and visiting the very few clients (eventually one) I still had during the thick of things.

As we started to learn that outside activities were pretty safe with distancing measures, I was able to take my dog and head out into the wilderness. We’d see other people and he’d see other canines. We both needed it. We needed some sense of community.

So that is my word for the year. Community. I’m learning creative ways to develop it, and I invite you to join me.

And I want to know what you want from me.

I also want to know, do you have a word for the year? Or even a short phrase? Is there something you want to create more of around you? Or maybe less of?

Dogs in Community

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Remembering Newtown and the Dogs Who Came to Heal

December 15, 2020 By Kelly Crompton 2 Comments

Remembering Newtown Therapy Dogs

Today I am remembering the victims of Sandy Hook. I cannot begin to imagine the depths of trauma the survivors and loved ones experienced, and are still experiencing. And while I should be thankful that I can’t imagine that, I am instead saddened that such tragedy even exists.

However, I AM thankful for the outpouring of compassion, love, and concern — which continues eight years later. I am thankful that therapy dogs were among the many strategies and tools used to help the people of Newtown.

This article, written a few months after the shootings, describes just how helpful therapy dogs can be to help navigate the emotions attached to such experiences.

…many of the Newtown officers wrote their reports about the shootings with a pen in one hand, and the other stroking a dog.

One thing adults and children alike have difficulty with is expressing all of the emotions involved with trauma. There are no words to adequately describe what they are dealing with. So without the vocabulary, how does one even begin to process, never mind heal?

This is where dogs shine. All dogs. But therapy dogs share a special affinity for instinctively knowing how to just be there. Merely petting a dog can bring one’s anxious, speeding heart rate back down. It can be easier to talk with a dog, because we know there is zero judgment. No pressure to feel better immediately. No advice given when our only need is to express our jumbled-up emotions, when we’re not ready to take anything in. We need to just let it out. There is only love.

Recent research has said that when [people] pet a dog, oxytocin is released, which causes people to feel relaxed and happy,” said Cynthia Hinckley, executive director of Bright Spot Therapy Dogs of Massachusetts, which visited Newtown High School one afternoon in December.

There are a great many stories of the bond between dogs and humans. Today I want to share this one. It’s an older article from that terrible time, but paints a picture of how therapy dogs from around the country swooped in to aid a school, an entire town, in need of comfort.

 

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